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[2019] HKFC 252-EN-2019-09-25

M v. L

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FCMC 14921 of 2017

[2019] HKFC 252

IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE

HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION

MATRIMONIAL CAUSES

NUMBER 14921 of 2017

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BETWEEN  
 MPetitioner

and

 LRespondent

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Coram: Deputy District Judge M Lam (paper disposal)
Date of Witten Submissions of the Petitioner: 27 June 2019
Date of Witten Submissions of the Respondent: 19 June 2019
Date of Written Clarification of the Respondent: 22 July 2019
Date of Decision: 25 September 2019

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Decision
(Leave to Appeal)

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Present application

1.  This is the Respondent’s (“Husband”) application for leave to appeal against my judgment handed down on 22 May 2019 (“Judgment”).

2.  By the time the Husband took out the present Summons in person on 19 June 2019, he was legally represented by a legal firm. Upon enquiry, the Husband confirmed that he would act in person in the present application on 22 July 2019.   He also filed a notice to act in person to comply with the necessary formalities.

Intended grounds of appeal

3.  The background, facts and evidence of this case have been set out in the Judgment which I will not repeat here.  I shall adopt the abbreviations contained in the Judgment.

4.  In brief, both parties recognized that their marriage had broken down irretrievably. The Wife petitioned for divorce on the basis of two-year separation whereas the Husband cross-petitioned for divorce based on adultery.

5.  After trial, I handed down the Judgment.  I found that the parties had lived apart continuously for more than two years before the Wife’s Petition and I declined to conduct further inquiry on the issue of adultery.  I granted a decree nisi of divorce on the Wife’s Petition and made no order to the Husband’s Petition.   I also granted a costs order nisi that the Husband do pay the Wife’s costs of the main suit, including all costs reserved, with certificate for counsel, on party and party basis, to be taxed if not agreed (“Costs Order Nisi”).

6.  Neither of the parties has made application for variation of the Costs Order Nisi.

7.  In the present application, the Husband put forward 3 proposed grounds of appeal.  It is alleged that this court erred in: -

(1) finding the Parties had lived apart for at least two years immediately preceding the filing of the Wife’s Petition; (“2-year Separation Issue”);

(2) not granting a decree based on adultery, having ignored the birth of a daughter (“Daughter”) by the Wife with another man during the marriage of the Parties.  (“Adultery Issue”);

(3) ordering the Husband to pay for the costs of the main suits. (“Costs Issue”)

Applicable legal principles

8.  Leave to appeal shall not be granted unless the court is satisfied the appeal has a reasonable prospect of success or there is some other reasons in the interest of justice why the appeal should be heard: section 63A(2) of the District Court Ordinance, Cap 336.

9.  Reasonable prospect of success connotes the prospect of succeeding must be reasonable and more than fanciful, without having to be probable. An applicant is required to show more than just an arguable case, but he does not have to demonstrate the appeal will probably succeed. Even if the court takes the view that there is a reasonable prospect of success, it still remains a discretion as to whether to grant leave, though the fact that there is, ex hypothesis, a reasonable prospect of success would heavily influence the court in exercising its discretion: Hong Kong Civil Procedure 2019 Vol. I §59/2A/4

2-year Separation Issue

10.  On the 2-year Separation Issue, the Husband seeks to challenge this court’s finding of facts.  It is well-established principle that the appellant court is not to assume the task of reviewing the evidence and substituting the trial judge’s findings with findings of its own.  The appellant court would only reverse a finding of primary fact if it is satisfied that the finding is plainly wrong.  If not so satisfied, it would defer to the trial judge’s conclusion on fact even if in some doubt as to its correctness.  See Ting Kwok Keung v Tam Dick Yuen [2002] 5 HKCFAR 336.

11.  In gist, the Husband put forward 6 arguments in his “written statement/ skeleton submission” (“Written Submission”).  §2 of the Written Submission complains that there was no sufficient witness for proof of the 2-year separation.  This argument is groundless.  Even though only the Parties (and no other witnesses) gave evidence at trial, the Wife’s evidence was so strong that she succeeded in proving more than two-year separation before the Wife’s Petition.  Not only her case and evidence was logical, it was well supported by the contemporaneous documents and was consistent with the Parties’ conducts and the background facts.  The truthfulness of her evidence was fully examined and further tested against the evidence given by the Husband as elaborated in §§ 20 to 40 of the Judgment. 

12.  §§ 3 and 4 of the Written Submission should be dealt with together.  The Husband seeks to challenge this court’s finding of facts relating to a number of text messages of the Wife. Those text messages were exhibited to the affirmations.  The Husband had not mounted any valid challenge to the sending of them to him or the truthfulness of the contents thereof at the trial.   His present allegation that he has not acknowledged those messages lends no support to his challenge to the Judgment.  It does not render those messages non-existed or untrue.

13.  Not only that those messages were flowing in a logical sequence, they in fact intertwined with the Husband’s own text messages at the material times and fitted into the Husband’s own admission of facts.  The analysis of them was summarized in §§ 21 to 30 of the Judgment.  In summary,

(a)     the Wife’s email notifying the Husband of her moving out on the Departure Date (on 9 September 2015) mirrors the Husband’s admission of her moving out of the matrimonial home on the Departure Date at trial.  See §21 of the Judgment

(b)     the Wife’s text message dated 2 August 2016 expressly recorded the separation of the parties for almost one year.  Such message was replied by the Husband who did not deny it.  Instead, he confessed that they had not been seeing each other for long. See §§23 & 26 of the Judgment.

(c)     the Husband’s numerous text messages sent to the Wife since 15 September 2016 had met with no answer until the Wife’s text message dated 17 October 2016. She reiterated the ending of the relationship between them for long and declared her determination of not responding to the Husband’s previous and future text messages.  See §§ 24, 26 & 27 of the Judgment

(d)     the Husband’s own text messages as well as the exchange of text messages between the Husband and the Parties’ mutual friend further marked the long-term separation of the parties since September 2015.  See §§ 26, 29 and 30 of the Judgment

14.  Apart from testing the Wife’s evidence against the Husband’s evidence, the combined effect of all the evidence was also weighed in §§ 31 to 40 of the Judgment.  For reasons aforesaid, his arguments in §§ 3 and 4 of the Written Submission are unjustified.

15.  Arguments in §§ 5 and 6 are without substance.  The reasons for my ruling on those issues were set out in §31 of the Judgment with the relevant background facts stated in §§ 3 to 11 thereof.  In the First Answer (filed on 25 February 2016), the Husband pleaded that the parties had lived separately since the Departure Date.  He had at no stage sought to amend such stated fact.   It was only until 23 October 2017 the First Answer was withdrawn resulting from the withdrawal of the First Petition, and in the subsequent divorce proceedings, he changed to deny separation from the Departure Date.  No sensible explanation was offered for such conducts.

16.  His prosecution of a defence containing untrue material fact for a long period of time and his change of position on the separation date without reasonable explanation are plainly factors this Court could take into account on assessing his credibility. 

17.  For §7 of the Written Submission, the Husband seeks to re-argue the submissions on the Address Argument he advanced at trial.  Those submissions have been fully considered, the determination of which was summarized in §§ 5, 34 to 38 of the Judgment.  I have weighed the relevant evidence on each side separately as well as the combined effect of all the evidence together.  The analysis of the circumstances under which the Said Address was provided by the Wife together with the reasons as to why I accepted the evidence of the Wife but rejected the Husband’s evidence have been provided for.  

18.  After all, the Husband is unable to illustrate how his alleged errors or mistakes in the Judgment, even if they do stand as errors or mistakes (which the Husband failed to prove), are sufficiently material to undermine the conclusion of the Judgment.  His argument in §7 is of no merit.

“Adultery Issue”

19.  On the Adultery Issue, the Husband’s argument in §8 of the Written Submission is a repetition of the Husband’s argument at trial.  I have rejected it and stated the reasons for my decision in §§41 to 47 of the Judgment.  

20.  In brief, I took the view that as a decree was to be granted on two-year separation, this Court should follow the principle and approach of Grenfell v Grenfell and SJH v RJH to adopt a sensible and pragmatic attitude with a view to dissolve the marriage as quickly and as painlessly as possible.  The Court shall be loathed to allow the parties to use court time to litigate on a matter which has no impact whatsoever on the divorce itself, but merely to satisfy feelings of a party or to allow bitter recrimination against the other party.   See §§43 to 45 of the Judgement.

21.  My decision was made after full consideration of the fact that this is a childless marriage, of the Husband’s declaration of not relying on adultery in the ancillary relief application, of the birth of the Daughter was long after the separation of the Parties and could hardly amount to any “obvious and gross misconduct” that would affect either parties’ position in the ancillary relief application and of all the circumstances in this case. In the absence of any fresh argument or legal authority to dispute the legal principles or the reasons given, his argument in §8 is unmeritorious.

22.  §§9-12 of the Written Submission can be dealt with together briefly.  The Husband complained this Court to have given prejudiced comments on the Wife’s adultery, to have ignored the Wife’s burden to deny the fact of adultery, to have confused “an adultery” with “an affair”, to have misjudged the Parties’ respective intention of arguing the adultery issue. 

23.  Given this Court’s decision on declining to conduct inquiry on the issue of adultery and absent any fact-findings on such issue by this Court, there is simply no room for the Husband’s arguments, not to mention that these arguments are unjustified but to quote a phrase out of its context, or to complain basing on a misunderstanding of statements. They will not offer the Husband a valid ground of appeal.

24.  I should add that the email message of the Husband dated 6 June 2018 as mentioned in §46 of the Judgement was to illustrate that the Husband did not really care whether the decree would be granted based on 2-year separation or adultery.

Costs Issue

25.  On the issue of costs, the Husband appears to have got various costs orders in these proceedings mixed up.  In gist, he seeks to argue that this Court has erred in: -

(a)     ordering the costs of the main suit be solely paid by him for the “typical practice of the Family Court” is each party bears it’s own costs. (“Argument (a)”)

(b)     ignoring that “the Wife filed the prior petition 942/2016, which had to be withdrawn by herself due to false separation date and statements.  The learned Judge ought to have ordered those incurred costs be sole covered by the Wife”.  (“Argument (b)”)

(c)     wrongly requesting the Husband to amend the Husband’s Petition by pleading the birth of the Daughter and ordering the Husband to pay for the costs of and occasioned by the amendments.  The court has wrongly ignored that those particulars were “provided in the witness statements instead of direct ground of divorce as in 11A(2)(a) of MCO” and neither the Wife nor the court had asked for such amendments before the trial.  (“Argument (c)”)

(d) not requesting the Wife to amend the Wife’s Petition to include the new witness mentioned in her witness statements. (“Argument (d)”)

(e) ignoring “the fact the adultery petition was not ordered in the trial, with regard to the cost order.” (“Argument (e)”)

26.  Argument (a) is unsustainable.  The legal principle is that costs are in the discretion of the Court: Order 62 rule 3 Rules of the High Court, Cap 4A (“RHC”).   Apart from cases on children matters, the general principle on costs in matrimonial and family proceedings remain to be “costs follow the event”: Re Elgindata Ltd (No. 2) [1992] 1 WLR 1207; Gojkovic v Gojkovic(No 2) [1991] 2 FLR 233; see also Order 62 rule 3(2) & (2A) and 5 RHC.

27.  In this case, the Wife succeeded in proving her case and a decree nisi was granted on two-year separation as prayed by her.  She also managed to convince the court not to conduct further inquiry on the issue of adultery as sought by the Husband.

28.  On the contrary, the Husband failed in his defence and cross-petition.  When he filed the Husband’s Petition, he knew that the Parties had separated for more than 2 years and a decree nisi should be granted on the Wife’s Petition.  He however defended the Wife’s Petition and further filed the Husband’s Petition.  The Wife was dragged into the Courtroom to fight to the end.

29.  In the circumstances, the general principle that costs follow the event applied.  There were no special circumstances which departed this case from the general principle. There is no merit in Argument (a).

30.  Argument (b) is hopeless. Apparently the Husband has ignored the Order made by Deputy District Judge D. Cheung on 23 October 2017.  In the said order, the First Action (action FCMC942/2016) was ordered to be dismissed upon the Court pronounces decree nisi in the new action (the “Wife’s Action”).  The learned Judge also ordered that there be no order as to costs of the First Action.  See §4 of the Judgement.

31.  Argument (c) is bound to fail.  The Husband is silent on the fact that his amendment to the Husband’s Petition was indeed to meet the Wife’s challenge to his defective petition before the start of the trial: the sole fact upon which he sought to rely to establish adultery (the birth of the Daughter) was not stated in the Husband’s Petition. 

32.  It was in response to the Wife’s challenge that the Husband was not entitled to adduce evidence of the birth of the Daughter as stated in his witness statement, he then amended the Husband’s Petition to state such fact. The amendment was made after some consideration of the Husband and by consent.  The Parties also agreed that the costs of and occasioned by such amendment were to be paid by the Husband to the Wife.  The Wife then withdrew her challenge and the trial commenced only after the filings of the amended petitions and the related documents.

33.  Argument (d) is unfounded.  The wife has not added any new witness necessitated an amendment to her petition.

34.  Argument (e) is groundless. The Costs Order Nisi that the costs of and incidental to the main suit to be paid by the Husband covered the costs of both the Wife’s Petition and the Husband’s Petition.  The reasons are stated in §§26-29 above.

Conclusion

35.  Having considered the submissions of both parties, the proposed grounds are without merit. Since the intended appeal has no reasonable prospect of success, and there is no other reason in the interests of justice why the appeal should be heard, leave to appeal is therefore refused.  The Present Summons is dismissed. 

Costs

36.  Given both parties act in person in this application and there is no application for costs by the Wife, I make a costs order nisi that there be no order as to costs in this application. This is a costs order nisi which will become absolute if no application for variation of this costs order nisi by way of summons is made within 14 days.

(M LAM)
Deputy District Judge

  

The Petitioner acting in person

The Respondent acting in person

[2019] HKFC 133-EN-2019-05-22

M v. L

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FCMC 14921 of 2017

Consolidated with FCMC 943/2016 and FCMC 5284/2018

[2019] HKFC 133

IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE

HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION

MATRIMONIAL CAUSES

NUMBER 14921 of 2017

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BETWEEN  
 MPetitioner

and

 LRespondent
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(By Order of Deputy District Judge David Cheung dated 23 October 2017 action FCMC 943/2016 was consolidated with FCMC 14921/2017)
(By Order of Deputy District Judge David Cheung dated 19 June 2018 action FCMC 5284/2018 was consolidated with FCMC 14921/2017)

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Coram: Deputy District Judge M. Lam in Court
Date of Hearing: 13 and 14 March 2019
Date of Witten Closing Submissions of the Petitioner: 26 March 2019
Date of Witten Closing Submissions of the Respondent: 21 March and 1 April 2019
Date of Handing Down Judgment: 22 May 2019

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JUDGMENT
(Defended Petition and Cross-petition)

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Introduction

1.  This is a defended divorce.  Both parties recognize that the marriage has broken down irretrievably.  The wife seeks a decree based on two-year separation whereas the husband seeks a decree based on adultery.

The actions and pleadings

2.  The parties married on 30 December 2005.  No child was born to the husband during the marriage.  They are domiciled in Hong Kong. Both of them are engineers.

3.  The wife initially petitioned for divorce on the basis of 2-year separation since April 2013 (the “First Petition”) under action FCMC942/2016 on 23 January 2016 (the “First Action”). The husband defended the petition by filing an answer on 25 February 2016 (the “First Answer”).  He pleaded that up to 8 September 2015 the couple were still living together in Hong Kong, that the wife moved out of the matrimonial home on 9 September 2015 (the “Departure Date”) and from then onward, they had lived separately.  He prayed for the petition be dismissed with costs to him.

4.  On 23 October 2017, the learned Deputy District Judge David Cheung gave an order for further conduct of the First Action including, inter alia, : -

(a) leave to the wife to file a new petition for divorce on the ground of two-year separation since 10 September 2015 (the “Alleged Date”);

(b) the new action be consolidated with the First Action;

(c) the First Action be stayed from the date of filing of the new petition for divorce by the wife; and when the court pronounces decree nisi in the new action, the First Action be dismissed;

(d) leave to the husband to withdraw the First Answer and to file a fresh Form 4 within 14 days after service of the new petition;

(e) There be no order as to cost of the First Action.

(the “First Consolidation Order”)

5.  On 15 November 2017, the wife issued a new divorce petition (the “Wife’s Petition”) based on two-year separation “since at least from the Alleged Date” under action FCMC14921/2017 (the “Wife’s Action”).  The husband defended the petition by filing an answer on 21 December 2017 (the “Husband’s Answer”).   He denied separation for lack of agreed or deed of separation (the “Agreement Argument”).  He further prayed for the Wife’s Petition be dismissed due to a false statement contained therein, namely the wife’s statement that she resided in a specified flat on a specified floor in Heng Fa Chuen (the “Said Address”) (the “Address Argument”).

6.  The parties filed and served witness statements shortly afterwards.  The second pre-trial review was fixed to 19 June 2018 to allow another round of exchange of witness statements.

7.  On 4 May 2018, the husband issued a divorce petition based on adultery (the “Husband’s Petition”) under action FCMC5284/2018 (the “Husband’s Action”).  No particulars of adultery were provided.  The wife resisted the petition.  She urged for dissolution of the marriage solely on two-year separation.

8.  By Order of Deputy District Judge David Cheung dated 19 June 2018, the Wife’s Action and the Husband’s Action were consolidated as one action with the Husband’s Petition be treated as the Cross-Petition. 

9.  Subsequently, the husband was allowed not to name the person alleged to have committed adultery with the wife in this action.

10.  On the first day of trial, by consent of the parties, leave was granted to the husband to amend the Husband’s Petition by giving particulars of the adultery, namely, the birth registration of a girl with the date of birth on X September 2017, her mother being the wife and the father not the husband, with cost of and occasioned by the amendments be paid by the husband to the wife, to be taxed if not agreed.  The wife then filed consequential amended answer and witness statement. 

11.  The trial proceeded on the same day as scheduled.  In the middle of the trial, the husband produced further document.

The issues in dispute

12.  Chronologically, the issues to be determined are: -

(a) whether a decree based on two-year separation as prayed in the Wife’s Petition should be granted,

(b) If the answer to (a) is positive, whether the Court should further make inquiries into the husband’s allegation of adultery under the Husband’s Petition.

(c) If the answer to (b) is positive, whether a decree based on adultery should be granted.

The legal principles

13.  The sole ground for granting a decree of divorce is that the marriage has broken down irretrievably: section 11 of the Matrimonial Causes Ordinance, Cap.179 (“MCO”).

14.  Proof of irretrievable breakdown can be demonstrated by establishing one or more of the facts set out in section 11A (2) of MCO.  Section 11A (2) of MCO provides that: -

“ 11A.Proof of ground for petition

(2) The court hearing a petition for divorce shall not hold the marriage to have broken down irretrievably unless the petitioner satisfies the court of one or more of the following facts—

(a) that the respondent has committed adultery and the petitioner finds it intolerable to live with the respondent;

(b) that the respondent has behaved in such a way that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to live with the respondent;

(c) that the parties to the marriage have lived apart for a continuous period of at least 1 year immediately preceding the presentation of the petition and the respondent consents to a decree’s being granted;

(d) that the parties to the marriage have lived apart for a continuous period of at least 2 years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition;

(e)  that the respondent has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period of at least 1 year immediately preceding the presentation of the petition.”

15.  The Wife’s Petition is based on section 11A(2)(d) of MCO in which the wife claims the parties had lived apart for a continuous period of at least 2 years before the presentation of the Wife’s Petition, since at least from the Alleged Date.

16.  Section 11C (1) of MCO provides that:

“(1) For the purpose of this Part, a husband and wife shall be treated as living apart unless they are living with each other in the same household.”

17.  To constitute living apart, even if the wife can prove that the parties have not physically lived together in the same place, she still has to prove that she has ceased to recognize the marriage as subsisting and intended never to return to the husband.  Her state of mind needed not be communicated to the husband. See Santos v Santos [1972] Fam 247.

18.  In a petition for divorce on two-year separation, the court should not inquire into whose fault it was that the marriage had broken down.  Matters of fault between the parties should not be considered.  See Chapman v Chapman [1972] 1 WLR 1544.

19.  With these principles in mind, I now turn to consider the facts of this case.

The First Issue

20.  Having considered all the oral and documentary evidence together with the submissions of both parties, I am of the view that the wife has satisfied the requirements as prescribed by section 11A(2)(d) of MCO. She succeeds in proving that the parties have lived apart at least from the Alleged Date with the following reasons.

21.  The fact that the wife moved out of the matrimonial home on the Departure Date was admitted by the husband during trial.  It was also evidenced by an email sent by the wife on the Departure Date notifying the husband that she was moving out on that date and she would live with her friend from then on. 

22.  Even though the husband seeks to argue that the wife only intended to live apart from him temporarily as worded in the said email, there is solid evidence to show that what she had termed to be temporary separation has eventually become permanent separation as elaborated below.

23.  There are a number of electronic text messages which support the wife’s case that the separation started from the Alleged Date.  In her electronic text message to the husband dated 2 August 2016 (the “Wife’s August Message”), the wife stated that: -

(i)     the parties had formally separated for almost one year by then;

(“我們正式分居已近一年”);

(ii)     the wife had already removed the husband from her insurance policy.  She reminded him not to include her in his insurance policy;

(“我的醫療保險已經把你的名字去掉了,你的保險也不需要cover我”)

(iii)     she had already entered into a new relationship

(“我也已經開始了一段新的感情”);

(iv)     she urged the husband to rationally overcome the frustration caused by the breakdown of marriage and not to cause meaningless delay.

 (“我希望你能夠理性的面對這次婚姻的挫折,不要無意義的拖延。”)

24.  In her message to him dated 17 October 2016 (the “Wife’s October Message”), she stated that the relationship between the parties had completely come to an end for long. The husband’s acts, emails, WeChat messages and letters were well received by her.  She however did not find it necessary to reply, and would not further answer him. 

25.  Apparently these two messages together with some other messages produced by the parties demonstrate that the parties had separated for almost one year before August 2016 and the wife had unequivocally told the husband that their relationship had already come to an end.

26.  Not only the husband has never disputed the contents of such messages, the long-standing separation has actually been worded in his own messages: -

(a)     in his message in reply to the Wife’s August Message dated 11 August 2016, he wrote that they had not been seeing each other for long and asked to talk to her in person. 

(“有好久沒見了我們見面談下我們的事。”)

(b)     in his message dated 11 October 2017, he mentioned that the wife had refused to communicate with him for a long period of time

(“這麼長時間了,你還不理我”)

(c)     in his message dated 17 February 2018, he mentioned that the wife had left for Beijing in September 2015 and subsequently asked to divorce him.

(“你15年9月底去北京⋯⋯然後才提要和我離”)

27.  His numerous electronic text messages sent to the wife since 15 September 2016 recorded his many unsuccessful attempts to approach her with all sorts of reasons (for a chat, date, meal, party, medical appointment, family gathering and advice) in the hope that he could be in contact with her again.  Such messages had met with no answer until the Wife’s October Message which stonewalled any further communication.

28.  In my view, the written messages of the parties are clear proof of separation since the Alleged Date as well as the wife’s firm position not to return to the husband.  She has persistently refused to embark on any form of relationship with the husband despite his repeated instigations.

29.  The parties were known for their long-standing separation and breakdown of the marriage as recognized by their mutual friend in the emails in May 2018.  The husband’s only explanation was that such friend had no communication with the parties for years and did not know much about them.

30.  His explanation is unconvincing.  I could not ignore the fact that it was indeed the husband who approached the said friend for assistance in salvaging his marriage by describing the said friend as an important and influential mutual friend of the parties. 

31.  Nor could I forget his pleaded case in the First Action.   In the First Answer on 25 February 2016, he pleaded that the wife “began to move out of the premises on 9 September 2015 and from then on, the Petitioner and the Respondent have lived separately”.    At trial, he offered no valid explanation as to why he had proceeded with this pleaded case without amendment until the First Consolidation Order on 23 October 2017.  It was only by then that the First Answer was withdrawn following the withdrawal of the First Petition.  

32.  The husband’s own admissions of his meetings with the wife’s boyfriend to persuade the latter to leave the wife in August and November 2016 as well as of his ignorance of the wife’s pregnancy and the birth of a girl until April 2018 tend to support the wife’s case of their continuous separation since the Alleged Date.

33.  As to the husband’s Agreement Argument and the Address Argument, they could be briefly disposed of.  The former is bound to fail. Suffice it to say that the absence of any agreed or deed of separation is no bar to the operation of section 11A(2)(d) of MCO. The law does not require the party intending to separate to seek agreement of the other party for separation. See AFTA v JMA FCMC1087/2014 HHJ Melloy 29 April 2015.

34.  Likewise, the Address Argument does not lend any support to the husband’s case.  The husband’s position on this issue is self-contradictory.  In his witness statements, he said that the Said Address belonged to a common friend of the parties. The parties had been there together for visit and gathering.  So far as he was aware, the wife had never resided there. 

35.  In court, when the wife reiterated that she had once lived there in 2016 which was her friend’s residence, the husband changed to cross-examine her that the Said Address was a fake address which could not be located in Hong Kong.  He nevertheless provided neither explanation for such change of position nor justification for any of his allegations. 

36.  Absent any solid evidence to challenge the Wife’s evidence that she once resided in the Said Address in 2016 and only forgot to update her current address in the copy-and-paste exercise when preparing the Wife’s Petition, I find no valid basis for the husband’s complaint of a deliberate false statement.  At any rate, even if, which I do not so find, the Said Address is a fake address, I fail to see how it could destroy the wife’s case of 2-year separation in light of the strong evidence aforesaid.

37.  In fact, the husband’s frequent change of his case surfaced in the cross-examination.   In her witness statements, the wife said that since the Alleged Date, the parties had never engaged in any intimacy relationship or social activities together other than a few discussions relating to divorce (with the last two on 21 January 2016 and 19 May 2016), and the wife’s collection of her piano from the husband on 18 May 2016. Notwithstanding that such evidence has never been disputed by the husband, in cross-examination, he dramatically changed to say that he had sex, cohabitation and social activities with her after the Alleged Date.

38.  Again, no valid explanation for the sudden change of position was offered.  Needless to say, his new case runs counter to the contemporaneous documents and the evidence as elaborated above and is not supported with any particulars or evidence.  I do not believe him.

39.  The husband’s another attack that the wife had deliberately concealed the birth of a girl carries no merit at all bearing in mind matters of fault between the parties should not be considered for petition based on 2-year separation.  The wife simply has no obligation to disclose such fact in her petition.

40.  Having considered all the evidence and submissions of both parties, I form the view that the evidence in support of the wife’s case is compelling. I find that she physically left the husband on the Departure Date (9 September 2015) and lived apart from him at least since the Alleged Date.  What had initially termed as temporary separation has subsequently become a permanent separation.   The parties had lived apart continuously for more than 2 years before the Wife’s Petition.  I will grant a decree nisi of divorce based on two-year separation.

The second and third issue

41.  Given my ruling on the Wife’s Petition and that a decree will be granted on two-year separation, this Court will be loathed to conduct further inquiries into the husband’s allegation of adultery.  I take the view that even if the adultery is proved by the husband, which I have yet so found, it serves no practical purpose for this action.  This is a childless marriage.  At trial, the husband declared that the adultery was irrelevant to and would not be relied on in the ancillary relief application. 

42.  In any event, given the birth of the girl was long after the separation of the parties from the Alleged Date, it is difficult to see how it would amount to any ‘obvious and gross’ misconduct which would affect either party’s positions in the ancillary relief application.  

43.  I share the view of the learned HH Judge Sharon D Melloy in the case of THY v C, HFR unrep. FCMC11061/2014 26 January 2018.  It is trite law that issues of the divorce decree per se and of finance are in separate and discrete compartments.  The divorce and the ancillary relief proceedings are not inextricably linked.  It is absolutely illogical to adopt a position that the best arena to determine and consider issue of the parties’ marital conduct as adultery is at the trial of the main suit simply because the husband believes those issues require proper determination which may have some bearing on ancillary relief application.

44.  In light of my finding on the breakdown of the marriage on the basis of two-year separation, this Court should adopt a sensible and pragmatic attitude with the view to dissolve the marriage as quickly and as painlessly as possible.  I seek support from the principles as elaborated in the case of Grenfell v Grenfell [1978] Fam 128 as adopted by the Court of Appeal in the case of SJH v RJH [2011] HKCA 280 [2012] 4 HKLRD 308, at §11(7).: -

“…As both parties are now of the same view that the marriage has been irretrievably broken down, the Court in exercising its divorce jurisdiction in a modern setting, will be loathed to allow the parties to use valuable court time to litigate on a matter which has no impact whatsoever on the divorce itself and which should be dissolved as quickly and painlessly as possible. As Ormrod LJ observed in Grenfell v Grenfell [1978] 1 All ER 561 at 566 that,

‘There is no point, as I see it, in a case like this in conducting an enquiry into behaviour merely to satisfy feelings, however genuinely and sincerely held by one or other of the parties.  To do so would be a waste of time of the court and, in any event, would be running, as I think, counter to the general policy or philosophy of the divorce legislation as it stands today.  The purpose of Parliament was to ensure that where a marriage has irretrievably broken down, it shall be dissolved as quickly and as painlessly as possible under the Act, and attempts to recriminate in the manner in which the wife in this case appears to wish to do should be, in my judgment, firmly discouraged.’”

45.  In the premises, I should have the marriage dissolved as quickly and as painlessly.  No further investigation into the issue of adultery should be conducted merely to satisfy the husband’s feelings or to allow bitter recrimination against the other party.

46.  It is noteworthy that by an email message sent by the husband to the wife on 6 June 2018, with a property settlement proposal attached thereto, the husband told the wife that he would agree to have a decree be granted on either of the parties’ petition once the parties enter into a settlement agreement on distribution of property between them.  I should add that grant of decree should not be used as a means of settlement negotiation on the issue of property distribution.

47.  For reasons aforesaid, I decline to conduct further inquiry on the issue of adultery which serves no practical purpose and has no impact whatsoever on the divorce itself.  

Conclusion

48.  Having considered all the evidence and submissions of the parties, I am convinced that this marriage has broken down irretrievably. I grant a decree nisi of divorce on the Wife’s Petition and I make no order to the Husband’s Petition.

Costs

49.  Costs follow the event. I make an order nisi that the husband do pay the wife’s cost of and incidental to the main suit, including all cost reserved, with certificate for counsel, on a party and party basis, to be taxed if not agreed.

50.  This is a costs order nisi which will become absolute if no application for variation of this costs order nisi by way of summons is made within 21 days.

(M. LAM)
Deputy District Judge

  

Mr Austin Yiu, instructed by Patrick Mak & Tse for the Petitioner

The Respondent, being unrepresented, appearing in person