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[2021] HKFC 162-EN-2021-08-09

L, T v. M, MD

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FCMC 5131/2019

[2021] HKFC 162

IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE

HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION

MATRIMONIAL CAUSES

NO. 5131 OF 2019

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BETWEEN  
 L, TPetitioner

and

 M, MDRespondent

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Coram: Her Honour Judge Sharon D. Melloy in Chambers (Not Open to Public) paper disposal

Date of Ruling: 9 August 2021

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RULING

(Decree Absolute)

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Introduction

1.  This is an application by a Respondent husband for a decree absolute pursuant to section 17(2)(a) of the Matrimonial Causes Ordinance, Cap 179 and Rule 65(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Rules, Cap 179A.  In his summons, dated the 6 May 2021, the husband makes this application by simply stating as follows:

Application for Decree Absolute by the Respondent

Background

2.  This is a very high conflict case concerning a Russian wife and a French husband, who are currently both living and working in Hong Kong. They have two young children together.

3.  In his submission filed in support of his application the husband set out the basic facts as follows:

THE FACTS

1. Decree Nisi was given on 20 August 2019.

2.   On 6 September 2019, the Court Order regarding the finances was made by Her Honour Judge Melloy.

3.   On 11 January 2021, after a very lengthy litigation, the Court Order regarding children matters was made by Her Honour Judge Melloy.

4.   Between 15-22 January 2021, after all matters were resolved, both parties corresponded with the Court to argue about whether or not s18 declaration should be granted. The Petitioner asked the Court not to grant it. Her position was that «If a s18 declaration is granted, and this subsequently leads to a Decree Absolute, the Respondent will simply leave the jurisdiction of Hong Kong and will not fulfil his financial obligations towards her and the children». My position was that those were purely assumptions on her part and simply not true. I asked for s18 declaration to «get closure, move forward and ease tensions».

5.   On 1 February 2021 Her Honour Judge Melloy granted the s18 declaration.

4.  Notwithstanding the granting of the s.18 declaration, the decree absolute has still not yet been granted.    

The law

5.  Section 17(2)(a) of the Matrimonial Causes Ordinance, Cap 179 states as follows:

17. Proceedings after decree nisi

 (2)     (a)  Where a decree nisi of divorce has been granted and no application for it to be made absolute is made, then, at any time after the expiration of 3 months from the earliest date on which such an application could have been made, an application for a decree absolute may be made by -

(i)   in a case where the decree nisi was granted on a petition for divorce, the person against whom it was granted; or

(ii)  in case where such a decree was granted on an application for divorce, either of the parties by whom the application was made.

Rule 65(4) of the Matrimonial Causes Rules, Cap 179A adds:

(4)  An application by a spouse for a decree nisi pronounced against him to be made absolute may be made to a judge or the registrar, and the summons by which the application is made (or, where the cause is pending in the District Court, notice of the application) shall be served on the other spouse not less than 4 clear days before the day on which the application is heard. (L.N. 26 of 2002)

6.  The leading Hong Kong case on this point is the Court of Appeal decision in JAH v VH(Decree Absolute) [2013] HKFLR 664. This case also concerned a Petitioner wife, who did not wish a decree absolute to be granted, in that instance because she was concerned that she might be severely prejudiced financially if a decree was granted before the ancillary relief order had been effected. Mr Justice Cheung JA identified the proper test in such circumstances by reference initially to the case of Dart in England and Wales, as follows:

VI. What is the test?

7.2 The Judge held [in Dart] that the proper test is that ‘the opposing spouse must establish special or exceptional circumstances to satisfy the Court that it is just to refuse the grant of a decree absolute.’ He then held that ‘when the opposing spouse raises financial prejudice before determination of the ancillary relief as a special or exceptional circumstance, he/she must prove that the prejudice as alleged is real, failing which the mere fact that the ancillary relief is yet to be determined is not sufficient’.

7.3 I have no doubt that when the respondent spouse against whom the decree nisi was made invoked the inherent jurisdiction of the Court, as in Dart, to delay or stay the making of a decree absolute, special or exceptional circumstances must be established. After all, the petitioner spouse for whom the decree nisi was made in his or her favour is entitled to have it made absolute as of right.

7.4 What then is the position when it is the petitioner spouse for whom the decree nisi is made in his or her favour wishes to delay the making of the decree absolute? The reality is as Thorpe LJ observed in Manchanda v Manchanda [1995] 2 FLR 590 at page 596 that:

‘ …. Many petitioners have applications for ancillary relief that are not finally determined until long after the decree nisi. For many reasons they are generally loath to lose their marriage status until financial claims have been settled. If they are to lose that protection it should only be in the exercise of a judicial discretion after they have had a proper opportunity to present their opposition.’

7.5 As against this, there is the public policy consideration discussed in Blunt v Blunt [1943] AC 517 which is relied upon by Mr Pilbrow SC, counsel for the husband, that the interest of the community at large, judged by maintaining a true balance between respect for the binding sanctity of marriage and the social considerations which make it contrary to public policy to insist on the maintenance of a union which has utterly broken down.

7.6 In my view the public policy of ensuring a marriage that has been irretrievably broken down be put to an end without further ado must be subject to an equally important public policy of ensuring the spouse who opposes the making of a nisi absolute, must not be prejudiced in terms of financial provisions by way of ancillary relief.  It is not necessary for me to come to a view whether the ‘special or exceptional circumstances’ test is to apply to a case like the present one where it is the petitioner spouse who opposes the making of a decree absolute.  It is sufficient for me to say that, based on the authorities, the Court may refuse to make the decree absolute, if the opposing spouse can truly establish financial prejudice. This is the test that the Judge had actually applied in the present case.

7.  In this instance the situation is a little different in that the final ancillary relief order has already been made. The wife is seemingly alleging the possibility of financial prejudice notwithstanding the fact that there is a final order in existence. Her concern is that the husband may leave Hong Kong inter alia before he has paid her the full amount due and owing under the order.

The order on final ancillary relief dated the 4 September 2019

8.  The main bone of contention between the parties relates to Recital J (vii). This states inter alia as follows:

J.    AND UPON the Respondent's [husband’s] undertaking to the Court and to the Petitioner [wife] to pay the Petitioner a lump sum of HK$3,352,402.50 by direct transfer into the Petitioner's HSBC account no. 8XX-1XXXXXX-8XX by the following instalments (lithe Lump Sum"):-

(i)    HK$282,402.50 already paid to the Petitioner on 21 August 2019;

(ii)   HK$800,000 to be paid on or before 9 September 2019;

(iii)    HK$1,050,000 to be paid on or before 27 March 2020;

(iv)    HK$800,000 to be paid on or before 25 September 2020;

(v)     HK$320,000 to be paid on or before 26 March 2021; and

(vi)    HK$100,000 to be paid on or before 27 September 2021.

(vii)   For the avoidance of doubt money paid to the Petitioner from the Swiss Pension Fund identified in paragraph 2.12 of the Respondent's Form E shall form part of the Lump Sum instalments.

9.  Recitals K, L and M add as follows:

K.  AND UPON the Respondent and the Petitioner undertake each other to the Court that they will take all necessary steps as expeditiously as possible to facilitate the payment from the Swiss Pension Fund referred to in Recital J(vii).

L.   AND UPON the Respondent undertaking to the Petitioner and to the Court to pay for all costs necessary to facilitate the payment from the Swiss Pension referred to in Recital J(vii).

M.  AND UPON the Respondent agreeing and undertaking to the Court and to the Petitioner that the Lump Sum payment as set out in Recital J above shall be secured by a charge against the Respondent's property in France at 4, rue de Longchamp, Neuilly, France ("the French Property"), and the Petitioner shall be able to enforce payment of the Lump Sum in the event that the Respondent fails to pay any of the instalments of the Lump Sum by selling the French Property. The Respondent shall also be responsible for giving effect to such arrangement on or before 27 September 2019.

10.  For the avoidance of doubt the husband’s Form E refers to the Swiss Pension fund at paragraph 2.12, as stated in paragraph J (vii). This states that:

Description of benefit
Current Value
Date Realizable
Value of maturity
Pension Fund PM in Switzerland
CHF 266,418.75 as at 3 May 2019
On retirement, the date of which is unknown
Unknown

11.  The first order also refers to a lump sum payment as follows:

BY CONSENT, IT IS ORDERED that :-.

1.     The Respondent do pay to the Petitioner a lump sum of HK$3,352,402.50 in the manner as set out in Recital J above.

12.  In addition, paragraph F states that:

F.     AND UPON the Petitioner and the Respondent undertaking to the Court and to each other that they will each carry out any acts and execute any Deeds or sign any documentation if necessary, without any undue delay, in order to bring into effect the terms of their agreement and the order herein.

The husband’s case

13.  It is the husband’s case that after the sealing of the order that it came to light that he could only access the monies in his pension fund post decree absolute. This is not accepted by the wife. The wife then chose not apply for a decree absolute and seems to have taken the position that the husband should pay for the lump sum from other sources in any event. In his letter to the court dated the 17 March 2021, the husband tried to come up with a practical solution and suggested varying the court order.

In order to save time and money on both side, but most of all to prevent any further complication or communication on the issue, I would like to apply for the Court to vary the Order dated 4 September 2019 on Recital J. point (vii) and specify that the money paid to the Petitioner from the Swiss Pension Fund identified in paragraph 2.12 of the Respondent's Form E will cover Recital J points(iv) HK$800,000 to be paid on or before September 2020; and (v) HK$320,000 to be paid on or before 26 March 2021.

In other words, for the avoidance of doubt the Swiss Pension Fund will be used to pay points (iv) and (v).

This particular point (vii) has brought both parties and the Court enough uncertainties and complications, and I believe this will resolve a conflict over a provision in the Order dated 4 September that has been going on for long already. This would enable the Petitioner to finally get the money she is waiting for and put this issue to rest.

14.  The difficulty however, is that although the court can, in certain circumstances release a party from an undertaking or vary a lump sum payable by instalments, it has no jurisdiction to vary a lump sum order as set out in paragraph 11 above.

The wife’s case

15.  The wife raises new issues with respect to the Swiss pension fund in her submission, which are largely irrelevant to the issue in hand. She is also of the view that according to her information the husband should be able to access some of the funds in any event. She is also concerned that the husband may be planning to leave Hong Kong before paying her the full amount due and owing under the order. She also asks that he pay her the taxed costs arising out of the taxation hearing, which was due to take place on the 29 June 2021. To that end it is of note that on the 27 April 2021 this court handed down a Ruling in which it made no order as to costs with respect to the children’s litigation. The wife is seeking leave to appeal that ruling which will be handed down together with this Ruling.

16.  In the wife’s conclusion she stated as follows:

CONCLUSION

From the beginning of this divorce procedure until now, facts are as below: the Respondent reneged the Mediation agreement and is in breach of the court order on the Ancillary relief, has done all he possibly could to drag the procedure as long as possible, systematically refused to mediate, put all his efforts in concealing the pitfalls of the SPF's issues, refused to release his banks' accounts statements, and now that I am asking him to bear the financial costs of his own strategy, he awkwardly and conveniently portrays himself as a victim having "no cash anymore" although facts point at the exact opposite. Today, with all of the respondent's assets being abroad, it is already extremely hard, long and costly to enforce the fulfilling of the respondent's financial obligations (SPF release and French flat's mortgage to start with). The Respondent's attitude during the whole procedure, combined with his anticipated departure from Hong Kong, will complicate legal matters even further, including the enforcement of taxation decision the court is expected to make end of June and the payment of the legal fees I had to bear since September 2019. Granting a DA now will give the Respondent all the freedom he needs not to fulfil any of his financial obligations with almost full immunity, although, his funds and assets are more than sufficient to do so now and in the foreseeable future.

I am therefore respectfully asking the Court to make an order not to grant the DA until:

1.   The Respondent fulfils all his financial obligations towards me:

I.   Pay the rest of the lump sums according to the court order of Sep 4th, 2019

II. Fulfil the financial obligation resulting from the taxation hearing taking place on June 29.2021.

2.   There is a decision pending on the leave to appeal submitted by me to the Court on May 24th 2021 for the Order of the costs I have beard since Sep 2019 until now and, respectively, the appeal and the order execution by the Respondent.

With respect I do not accept all that is said here.

17.  In so far as the wife’s concerns about the husband leaving Hong Kong, she wrote to the court again in this respect on the 16 June 2021, as follows:

I refer to Petitioner's Submission of June 7th 2021.

Petitioner claim about his job, described in point 13, is purposely vague and misleading. If his employment is secured, it is certainly not with the current employer, as I have learnt some 2 weeks ago that PMI has terminated his contract and he will leave the company in October 2021 if not earlier. The fact that he does not release this information is a clear indication that all the consequences linked to that, predicted in my own appeal submission, are therefore very real.

18.  The husband responded as set out below:

I refer to the Petitioner's letter to Court dated 16th June 2021.

I wish I didn't have to defend myself against false accusations again, but I can't let the Petitioner try to influence the Court against me this way.

For the avoidance of doubt, my contract has not been terminated, I am not leaving the company in October 2021 or earlier and I was not keeping this information from the Court.

Please find attached a copy of my working visa (valid until 12.05.2024), which was recently renewed by my employer Philip Morris International, as well as an email from my supervisor, confirming that my contract has not been terminated.

Having to ask my supervisor justifications such as this one put me in a very delicate and humiliating position, especially at my level of seniority.

This is yet another proof that the Petitioner is trying to mislead the Court not based on facts and doesn't shy away from using lies to justify her assumptions.

I hope that Your Honour will take this into serious consideration.

19.  For the avoidance of doubt I accept what he says in this respect namely that there is evidence to support his stated position that he has no intention of leaving Hong Kong at present. 

Decision

20.  It seems to me that there is a circular aspect to the argument relating to the Swiss pension fund, which is not helpful for anyone. It was clearly in the contemplation of the parties at the time that they entered into the consent summons in September 2019, that the husband would need to resort to the Swiss Pension fund in order to pay the wife the lump sum ordered. Indeed, both parties undertook to take all necessary steps to facilitate that payment. In the circumstances it seems to me those steps should have included an application for a decree absolute.

21.  There is a real risk of financial prejudice to the wife if she does not receive her lump sum payment. I accept that the husband may not be able to access those funds until he has received the Decree Absolute. Thus it is imperative that the Decree Absolute be granted. There is no evidence to support the wife’s fears that the husband may leave the territory without paying her. The issue of legal costs is a different point and should not be permitted to muddy the waters. I do not know what costs are owed to the wife, if any at all as things stand, save for the costs due under the ancillary relief proceedings. No quantum has been provided in that respect.

22.  I will therefore make the order that the husband seeks i.e. that the decree absolute in this case shall be granted forthwith. This is on the understanding that he will then immediately take steps to liquidate the Swiss pension fund (or parts of it) and pay the wife what is due and owing to her under Recital J. In order to provide the wife with some comfort in that respect, I shall further order that a penal notice shall be endorsed on the order dated the 4 September 2019. I should add that it seems to me that it would certainly be helpful in the circumstances if all payments could be made to the wife by the 27 September 2021 as had been originally contemplated.

23.  Costs shall follow the event in the normal way. Therefore, the wife shall pay the husband’s costs of and occasioned by his summons dated the 6 May 2021, to be taxed on a party and party basis if not agreed.

(Sharon D. MELLOY)
District Judge

The Petitioner and the Respondent are both represented themselves

[2021] HKFC 161-EN-2021-08-09

L, T v. M, MD

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FCMC 5131/2019

[2021] HKFC 161

IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE

HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION

MATRIMONIAL CAUSES

NO. 5131 OF 2019

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BETWEEN  
 L, TPetitioner

and

 M, MDRespondent

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Coram: Her Honour Judge Sharon D. Melloy in Chambers (Not open to public). Paper disposal

Date of Ruling: 9 August 2021

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RULING

(Leave to Appeal)

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Introduction

1.  This is an application by the Petitioner mother for leave to appeal a Ruling made by me on the 27 April 2021 with respect to costs. In that ruling I concluded as follows:

Conclusion

11. Both sides have spent considerable time and effort trying to persuade me that they were reasonable in their approach and that the other side was not. Ultimately, I have not been persuaded. This was clearly a highly conflicted case, where each side behaved on occasion, in ways which were and are questionable. In particular, the language used in some of the correspondence was completely unacceptable. There is no excuse for this, whatever the provocation. However, I am not persuaded that either side has behaved in a way that is “reprehensible” “or beyond the limit of what might be regarded as reasonable”. Especially as ultimately they came to terms. Consequently, I can see no reason why the normal approach should not be adopted here. I am not persuaded that the litigation conduct of the husband was such as to invite an adverse costs order being made against him. Consequently, it follows that there shall be no order as to costs, with respect to the children’s litigation including costs arising after the 5 September 2019 and up until the date of the consent summons on the 7 January 2021 and since. I have considered whether an order should be made against the wife with respect to this application. This was her application. She has not succeeded in that application. She has made it notwithstanding her own questionable behaviour and in particular the aggressive use of language adopted in much of her solicitor correspondence, which has continued in her submissions to the court. However, ultimately, I accept that there has been fault on both sides throughout. Consequently, I shall further exercise my discretion in that there shall also be no order as to the costs of this application.    

2.  The issue of costs arose following an agreement made between the parties concerning the arrangements for the two children of the family, which was eventually endorsed by the court on the 7 January 2021. In other words, the mother is seeking to appeal against a standard order that there should be no order as to costs following a children’s dispute, where there has not even been a trial (there is generally no order as to costs following a children’s trial in any event). In this instance the court made an order that there be no order as to costs following an agreement entered into between the parties.      

The law on leave to appeal

3.  I am of course mindful of the test as set out in Section 63A of the District Court Ordinance which states as follows:

“Leave to appeal shall not be granted unless the judge hearing the application for leave is satisfied that the appeal has a reasonable prospect of success or there is some other reason in the interests of justice why the appeal should be heard.”

4.  It is generally accepted that there needs to be an arguable case in respect of an intended appeal, and, as I have said, that it has a reasonable chance of succeeding.  The Court of Appeal is unlikely to interfere with the exercise of the Court’s discretion unless it can be shown that it has clearly exercised that discretion incorrectly.  Alternatively, it will be necessary to show that the Judge was wrong on the law or in relation to a certain legal principle.

Discussion

5.  In this instance I shall give not give leave to appeal. The parties are now acting in person and the mother has not attached draft grounds of appeal in the normal format. Instead she has filed what amounts to an affidavit, in which she seeks to reargue many of the points that were originally raised by her, or to somehow “answer” the Ruling made on the 27 April 2021. In summary her basic point appears to be that the father reneged on the mediated agreement with respect to the children dated the 23 August 2019, that he had no basis for doing so and that he has also used the financial litigation in order to gain leverage with respect to the children’s matter. She says that by not making an order for costs against him that I am in effect punishing her, for doing what she was advised to do in the first place – i.e. to mediate and to reach an agreement with respect to the children.

6.  The father for his part maintains that ultimately he was only ever concerned with ensuring that he had proper access to the children. He disputes most of what the mother says in any event. In conclusion he states as follows:

Conclusion

16.  The Petitioner claims that the Court accepts my «outrageous behaviour» but it is clear from Her Honour’s ruling that it was mostly the Petitioner and her solicitor’s behaviour that was reprehensible. Her Honour even wrote in the conclusion: «I have considered whether an order should be made against the wife with respect to this application».

That being said, I agree with Her Honour and accept that «there has been fault on both sides throughout» which is surely often the case in high conflict cases. This is also why, even if I was advised by my solicitors to ask for an order against the mother to pay for my legal costs, I chose not to because I thought we both have to take our own responsibilities and pay for our own fees. The Petitioner putting all the blame on me is unrealistic to say the least.

18.  Again, having me pay for all her costs would be too great a departure from the general rule especially when the Petitioner is in a position to pay herself. I fear that her desire for revenge against me has taken over reason. Saying that it would be «in the best interest of the children to make the Father pay in full the legal fees» is simply using the children as an excuse to get money and I find it unacceptable. Going into the appeal process will certainly not help us with our co-parenting, nor will it be for the well-being of the children.

19.  Ultimately, there’s nothing new in the Petitioner’s arguments, it’s only a repetition of what was already brought to Court and carefully considered. She is making the Court waste time on facts that have already been shown in great details. There are no legal grounds for her application.

20.  Therefore I don’t see any legitimate grounds for appeal just because the outcome was not what the Petitioner was hoping for. An appeal should not be a «do-over» and this is exactly what she is trying to do. The Petitioner wants to punish me for fighting for more time with my children, time she has actually agreed to in the end. She also seems to forget that I also incurred tremendous legal fees. This is also why the original decision would not cause substantial injustice. I believe that each party paying for its own costs is the fairest option in our case and therefore oppose her application for leave to appeal.

With respect I tend to agree with much that is said here.  

Decision

7.  In such circumstances it seems to me that there is no reasonable prospect of this application succeeding on appeal, nor is there any other reason, in the interests of justice why this appeal should be heard. Consequently, the mother’s application for leave to appeal shall be dismissed.

Costs

8.  This is a discrete application. Costs shall follow the event in the normal way. Therefore, the mother shall pay the father the costs of and occasioned by this application for leave to appeal on a party and party basis to be taxed if not agreed.  

( Sharon D. MELLOY )
District Judge

The Petitioner and the Respondent both represented themselves 

[2021] HKFC 86-EN-2021-04-27

L, T v. M, MD

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FCMC 5131/2019

[2021] HKFC 86

IN THE DISTRICT COURT OF THE

HONG KONG SPECIAL ADMINISTRATIVE REGION

MATRIMONIAL CAUSES

NO. 5131 OF 2019

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BETWEEN  
 L, TPetitioner

and  

 M, MDRespondent

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Coram: Her Honour Judge Sharon D. Melloy in Chambers (Not open to public) Paper disposal

Date of original written submissions on costs: 25 August and 12 October 2020

Date of subsequent affidavits filed with respect to costs: 27 January and 8 March 2021

Date of Ruling: 27 April 2021

 

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R U L I N G

(Costs)

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Introduction

1.  This is an application on paper to determine costs following, ultimately, an agreement reached between the parties concerning the arrangements for the two children of the family. There is a mediated agreement dated the 23 August 2019, a consent summons dated the 24 December 2020 and finally an order of the court dated the 7 January 2021. The Petitioner mother seeks her costs from the date that she says the father reneged on the mediated agreement, on the 5 September 2019, until the 7 January 2021, when the final order was made. She does not say on what basis she is seeking those costs. In any event the father resists this application and although aggrieved about the way in which the litigation has been conducted asks, nevertheless that there be no order as to costs. 

2.  It is an obvious point, but nevertheless one worth making, that given that the order was made by consent, the court has not made any findings of fact nor come to any conclusions in relation to the issues, given that there was no trial and therefore no judgment. This includes any findings with respect to litigation conduct. Notwithstanding that both the submissions and the affidavits are littered with countless accusations made by one party against the other and are couched, on occasion, in extraordinary inflammatory terms. For example, it has been said on behalf of the mother that:

“11. In the present case, the conduct of the father since the very first day of litigation commencing has been appalling, fuelled by a sense of vengeance and a determination to bring the Mother to her knees”. (Submission on costs – paragraph 11)

3.  The submission goes on to refer inter alia, to the father’s appalling conduct, his hostility and to the fact that he “reneged” on the terms of the mediated agreement. He is said to be manipulative and to have shown no genuine intent to resolve matters. In conclusion it is said that:

27. The father’s approach to these proceedings was to delay, intimidate, bully and make himself as difficult as possible. His conduct goes far beyond the test of what is reasonable”.  (paragraph 27 of the submission).

4.  The father for his part refers to the excessive number of letters written on the mother’s behalf and to the overly aggressive way that the mother’s solicitors conducted the litigation. He denies all of the allegations made against him.

5.  For the avoidance of doubt I repeat, as I have done many times before, that THIS IS NOT A HELPFUL approach, not to the court and certainly not to the parties. It is also singularly unhelpful for the lawyers to enter into the fray, as they certainly appear to have done from time to time during the course of this litigation. It is highly unprofessional and, as the parties have found out, it can also be extremely expensive. It does not assist the parties in coming to terms with the end of their relationship nor does it help them effectively co parent.

6.  I should add that here, the only real argument concerned the amount of time that the father was going to have with the children. It has been said that orders for children can never truly be final, especially when the children are young. In this instance the children are now aged nearly 7 and 5 years of age. At the date of the mediated agreement, they would only have been 5 and 3 years old respectively. Thus, it is almost inevitable, that the arrangements for the children are likely to have changed over time. It seems that in this instance the father entered into the mediated agreement before he had had sight of a psychological report. The lawyers did not attend that mediation and it is not clear why the parties entered into this agreement, knowing as they both did, that a psychological report was pending. In any event the report was largely favourable to the father. A Social Investigation Report filed just before the mediation had similarly been relatively positive about both parties and their relationship with the children.

7.  In such circumstances it was unfortunate, but perhaps not surprising, that the father sought to re-open the issue of the care arrangements after receiving the psychological report. Originally, he had asked for shared care on a more or less 50:50 basis. He was further bolstered in this when an updated Social Investigation Report dated the 20 January 2020 also spoke in favourable terms of his relationship with the children. At the end of the day the final order increases his time from 6 to 10 days per month, which is not insubstantial, given the circumstances. I therefore do not accept, as has been suggested, that the final order is the same in nearly all respects as the original mediated agreement. Thus, the father says, and with some justification it seems to me, that he was right to “hold out” for a better deal.

The issue

8.  The only issue then is what order should now be made for costs given these prevailing circumstances?

The Law

9.  Ms Kwan for the father has referred me to the case of LEYY and UKWK[2020] HKFC 118, where I made an order that the father do pay half of the mother’s costs, following a trial, where significant findings of fact were made with respect inter alia, to the father’s behaviours. In that judgment I set out the general legal principles as follows:    

Legal principles

4.Although costs are always in the discretion of the court, it is accepted that a costs order made against one parent in a child related matter is generally considered unusual unless that parent has, for example, been unreasonable in the conduct of the litigation or has behaved in a way that is somehow reprehensible, or beyond the limit of what might be regarded as reasonable. See Sutton London Borough Council v Davis (Costs) (No 2) [1994] 2 FLR 569, Gojkovic v Gojkovic (No 2) [1992] 1 AER 271, S v S HCMP 5547/1999 and Lv C CACV 169 of 2006).

5.     Thus, in the normal course of events, regardless of the outcome, the court would normally make no order as to costs following a trial on a children’s matter. To that end, Ms Irving for the mother has also referenced the following English cases in her written submission:

5.   The principle that reprehensible behaviour, or behaviour beyond the band of what is reasonable, may result in an order for costs against that party was set out in Keller v Keller and Legal Aid Board [1995] 1 FLR 259 at 265 per Wilson J.;

“No one suggests that the court’s discretion in respect of costs under s 51 (1) of the Supreme Court Act 1981 has become emasculated in children cases. The position is only that in most such cases, indeed in ordinary cases, the proper weighing of the factors in the exercise of the discretion is likely to lead to the choice of no order …. Where, for example, the conduct of a party has been reprehensible or his stance in the litigation has been beyond the band of what is reasonable, an order for costs might well be made against him.” [emphasis added]

6.   When assessing whether a party’s conduct has been unreasonable, what should be considered is unreasonableness in the attitude to the litigation. In R v R (Costs: Child Case) [1997] 2 FLR 95 at 98B, per Hale J.

7.   In Re G (Costs: Child Case) [1999] 2 FLR 250, per Butler-Sloss LJ at 252G:

“If this judge in this case had found that this Father had behaved unreasonably in the litigation and had gone beyond what many Fathers do, seeking orders which are hopeless, the point will come at which pursuing a hopeless application becomes unreasonable. But hopelessness and unreasonableness are not necessarily the same thing. Indeed, particularlywhere there is a litigant in person, a degree of generosity towards a litigant may be more appropriate than to a litigant which is on legal aid generally advised by counsel and solicitors as to the extent to which they should continue to litigate.” [emphasis added]

Her Ladyship then added at 253D:

“It seems to me that the case of R v R does not change the normal situation that it is unusual to order costs, although it will be appropriate to order costs when a parent, even a litigant in person, goes beyond the limit of what is reasonable to pursue the application before the court.” [emphasis added]

6.      This general approach was also reiterated in the later case of Re T (A Child) [2005] EWCA Civ 311, where the Court of Appeal in England and Wales repeated the general principles on costs in child related matters as follows:

36.      The principles, which fall to be applied, are not, we think, in dispute.  The judge summarised them succinctly in the following way:-

“2.1 The CPR apply. Under normal circumstances, according to rule 44.3(2)(a), the general rule is that costs should follow the event, although the court can make a different order. ( Rule 44.3(2) (b) )

2.2 However, this general rule does not apply to family proceedings. (Family Proceedings (Miscellaneous Amendments) Rules1999)

2.3 It is suggested that even in family proceedings, the general rule is probably the starting point but can more easily be displaced. (Gojkovicv Gojkovic(No 2) [1992] Fam 40)

2.4 In cases involving children in particular, costs awarded against one parent or another are exceptional since the court is anxious to avoid the situation where a parent may feel “punished” by the other parent which will reduce co-operation between them. This will only impinge ultimately on the welfare of the child or the children concerned. (London Borough of Sutton v Davis (Costs) (No 2) [1994] 2 FLR569; Re: M (Local Authority’s Costs)[1995] 1 FLR 533)

2.5The conduct of the parties is in reality the major consideration when deciding whether or not an exceptional order for costs should be made. It should only be made if the penalised party has been unreasonable in his or her conduct. Moreover the “unreasonableness” must relate to the conduct of the litigation rather than the welfare of the child. ( R v R (Costs: child case) [1997] 2 FLR 95)

2.6 One has to be very careful in this distinction when, as in the case of (the mother), the apparent unreasonableness is as a result of the personality of the relevant party. In such circumstances, there is often an overlap of that party’s conduct of the litigation and the conduct relating to the welfare of the child.

7.     Reference may also be made to our own Court of Appeal decision in TPL v WYY, CACV 47 & 61 of 2014, which also reiterates these general principles.

Discussion

10.  In this instance the Petitioner mother, is seeking her costs on the premise that the father’s litigation conduct and the manner in which the litigation was conducted by him, was such as to justify a cost award in her favour. She says that costs have been incurred and have increased as a direct result of his litigation conduct. Although, as I have said, this is said in the context of an agreement reached as opposed to an application made following a trial and subsequent judgment.   

Conclusion

11.  Both sides have spent considerable time and effort trying to persuade me that they were reasonable in their approach and that the other side was not. Ultimately, I have not been persuaded. This was clearly a highly conflicted case, where each side behaved on occasion, in ways which were and are questionable. In particular the language used in some of the correspondence was completely unacceptable. There is no excuse for this, whatever the provocation. However, I am not persuaded that either side has behaved in a way that is “reprehensible” “or beyond the limit of what might be regarded as reasonable”. Especially as ultimately they came to terms. Consequently, I can see no reason why the normal approach should not be adopted here. I am not persuaded that the litigation conduct of the husband was such as to invite an adverse costs order being made against him. Consequently, it follows that there shall be no order as to costs, with respect to the children’s litigation including costs arising after the 5 September 2019 and up until the date of the consent summons on the 7 January 2021 and since. I have considered whether an order should be made against the wife with respect to this application. This was her application. She has not succeeded in that application. She has made it notwithstanding her own questionable behaviour and in particular the aggressive use of language adopted in much of her solicitor correspondence, which has continued in her submissions to the court. However, ultimately, I accept that there has been fault on both sides throughout. Consequently, I shall further exercise my discretion in that there shall also be no order as to the costs of this application.    

( Sharon D. MELLOY )
District Judge

Messrs Withers acted for the Petitioner

Ms Thelma Kwan instructed by Messrs Hugill & Ip for the Respondent